Monday, September 15, 2014

Clergy Abuse Lawyer Will Answer Your Questions at Shattered Pulpit


Coming Soon! One of the nation’s leading Clergy Sexual Abuse Attorneys, who has litigated dozens of clergy sexual abuse cases, will be sharing pertinent information for victims and their families. Learn from an experienced expert the pros and cons of filing a civil suit, how to choose a qualified clergy sexual abuse attorney, and other inside knowledge that he has gained from his experience in the courtroom. 

If you have legal questions that you have been afraid to ask, here is your chance. Questions, do not have to only be from a victim’s standpoint – if churches, leaders, pastors or others have legal questions, they are also welcome to participate. 


Email your questions to lilliansuearmstrong@gmail.com

or add a comment to this post. We will be compiling all of the questions over the course of this next week.
 
He wants your questions!
 


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Companion Plants and the Web of Life - Why Roses Love Garlic

The garlic cloves each make a new bulb.
Note well the shriveled roots - the key to this chemical marvel
called companion planting.

I startled a rose-lover at lunch by mentioning how roses love garlic, why rosarians grow the garlic family members with roses. Companion planting is still new to many people, and now I understand better why it works so well.

Double Delight rose - for colors and fragrance.


Double Delight Garden of Roses and Garlic
But first, a story. In New Ulm I found an area built to be a garden beside the wall, near the garage. I dug out all the weeds and planted three things there - daffodils, Double Delight roses, and garlic chives. I mulched the area heavily with wood mulch, so weeds were unknown. Daffodils pushed through the mulch, and so did garlic chives, which spread like weeds but stayed subordinate to the roses, looking like grass among the bushes.

Garlic makes roses stronger, fights diseases of the rose family, and repels insects. I experienced the repulsion when I bent over the rose garden to cut some roses on a hot, humid day. The garlic gas coming up from the chives was potent, like garlic bulbs left in a car on a hot day, windows closed. The roses were perfect and free of insect damage.

Explanation
Scientists are starting to realize the complexity of life in the soil. Two components are fungi and bacteria, but nematode worms and protozoa also contribute at the root level. Fungi are the larger actors in Creation gardening. They take nutrition from the plant roots and give back what the plants need, the plants managing the exchange.

Fungi can reach long distances and connect various plants together in a complex symbiotic relationship. That is one of the key reasons why soil should not be disturbed and compacted.

Botanists have known that plants exude root chemicals to protect themselves. Sunflowers like to keep others away from their extreme sunbathing. They turn solar energy into food even more effectively than corn does. Therefore, they exude root chemicals that make living near them unpleasant.

This explains how the roots of the garlic family connect chemically with the roots of roses in their subterranean Internet. Chemicals have to move to the plant and they have to be usable, broken down into key components. Transport and chemical break-downs are two of these tasks, but locking them in the root zone is another one. Organic improvements build up soil life, so the chemicals stay where they are need and move around where they are used, thanks to earthworms, nematodes, bacteria, protozoa, sowbugs, pillbugs, millipedes, centipedes, springtails, slugs, ants, and fungi. An earthworm pigs out on bacteria, and ants take earthworm corpses away to be used for their feast of pork - since earthworms are all muscle.

This Knockout rose was once a used up newspaper.

My neighbors all have different skills. I hired one to fix the sagging doors on our Lincoln Town Car. His daughters give me their used newspapers, and I give them our Sunday paper to be used for coupons. He came over with his daughter while he looked over the car.

I cut the magenta Knockout rose for his daughter to take home, adding, "This was one of your newspapers." Her eyes lit up and she said, "Really?" I explained, "Your family gives me newspapers, which rot into the soil, and the roses use that to grow."

Complex relationships can work in the world above the soil, if we observe how God manages His Creation.

Where do we humans fit into the soil food web? We have a huge impact on it, and very often not a positive one. Most gardeners have never heard of soil food web systems, even though they exist everywhere, and have no inkling of the role of microbes and arthropods play in them. And, of course, the gardener hardly ever knows when enough is enough and almost always tips the delicate balance a soil food web maintains.
Lowenfels, Jeff (2010-09-10). Teaming with Microbes: The Organic Gardener's Guide to the Soil Food Web, Revised Edition (Kindle Locations 1514-1517). Timber Press. Kindle Edition.


Lincoln roses.

Abuse Victims - Do NOT Go to the Church Leaders - Go to a Lawyer

DP Engelbrecht, future DP Zank,
Tim Glende, and Ski abused the
victim all over again - with SP Mark Schroeder's approval.



Sunday, September 14, 2014

Why Victims Should NOT Go to Church Leaders

Advice for victims written by Predatory Pastors
www.http://predatorypastors.com


KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE.  There are many more victims of pastoral and clergy sexual abuse than any of us want to believe. Over time, we've learned, there is rarely, if ever, only one victim of a predatory pastor.  While we were being abused we were isolated and felt extremely alone. Now it's possible to join with other survivors to find healing.  

DON'T GO TO THE CHURCH.  Many victims have gone to church leaders and officials to seek help, guidance and/or healing.  Many of us went to the church after building up loads of courage and strength, because we wanted to make sure our perpetrators didn't abuse anyone else. We mistakenly thought that church leaders would want to ensure others' safety too and that the perpetrators would be removed from the ministry. So many of us did this without ever telling anyone else. Then we found out that we were wrong. The church leaders did not care about protecting others and they did not care about us. Most of us found the experience of going to the church leaders a horrible mistake. The church leaders were insensitive, doubted our claims and didn't know how to respond to us. We were looking for help and healing, but found further victimization.  Most of us left feeling devastated and the entire experience of talking to the church leaders left us hurting more than ever.

Reasons why you should not go to your church leaders and other helpful tips


When first beginning to deal with the abuse, we are very confused about what has happened to us and still trying to sort through it ourselves. We many not have all the facts straight regarding places, dates, times, etc. ​Frequently our memories become refreshed with lots of details only as we engage in the healing process, taking days, months even years to fully recover.  If we've disclosed some details one day and recall more later, we will be discredited for being inconsistent with details.
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We have been taught to trust pastors implicitly ​so we approach with full trust and disclosure. We look up to them and they are in positions of power and authority over us.They, on the other hand, do not trust victims. They may even view you as the "enemy".  While we think they are trying to help us, they are in fact, building up a case against us without our knowledge. Things said during initial meetings with church leaders can easily be twisted to use against you and this has happened to a number of CSA victims.
  
Seek alternative help!  ​As an alternative to going to your church leaders, we recommend that you go to a trusted family member or seek professional help from a counselor. Many CSA victims have found professional counseling to be a very important tool to healing.
  
Learn your legal rights.  ​The church leaders have a lot more information about our abuse than we do. They know our legal rights, but most of us victims do not know them. We can choose to exercise our legal rights or not, but it is empowering to know we have that choice.
  
Many survivors develop health problems.  ​The pain and betrayal we felt from being abused was intense. We had no knowledge of how to cope with the experience of Clergy Sexual Abuse as well as the feelings that came as a result.  All of us have found a way to survive or we would not be here today. The problem is that many of the coping mechanisms we used to survive the abuse are not healthy. Here are some of the types of problems some CSA survivors have suffered: Alcoholism, drug addiction, eating disorders, co-dependency, detachment from intimacy, sleep disorders, stomach and intestinal disorders, and overall attitude of anger.
  
Facing the issues.  ​Acknowledging and facing the issue of our abuse can be extremely time consuming and can require lots of energy and emotions. As a result, many of us have felt completely drained and had months of feeling tired, depressed and overwhelmed. Accept that you are going to have periods in your recover that feel hopeless and know that it will pass.
  
Everyone is unique.  ​Everyone's healing from abuse is unique. While many of our abusive situations were similar, everyone heals in their own way. Mostly we have learned to trust our own judgement and the people who know us best and love us the most.
  
We are the victims (survivors)!  ​The abuse was not our fault, no matter what we did or didn't do to stop or prevent it.  No matter what, the responsibility for a pastor abusing us rests solely on the pastor.  He was in a trusted position of power and authority. We looked up to him. We trusted him and believed what he told us.  We thought he was close to God and would help us get closer to God.  He should not have taken advantage of his sacred role. He abused his position. He used his role as pastor to victimize us. He had no right to do this. We are victims.  We have been wronged and we deserve to have the wrong made right. This will mean different things to each of us, but we all deserve to be made whole, as much as that is possible.


written by Predatory Pastors
www.http://predatorypastors.com

Matt Harrison ordered Steadfast Lutherans (sic) to remove their
thread about the latest LCMS pastoral abuser - and they did.

For Sore Throats and Raw Voices - Coconut Oil in Hot Tea or Coffee

Here is a list of uses for coconut oil.
Walmart and Sam's Club are two stores where coconut oil is available at a good price.


One of my Moline classmates suggested coconut oil in hot tea for a sore throat. I used it in coffee yesterday.

Earlier, a Facebook friend suggested coconut oil in coffee for the flavor.

On both counts - I give a big yes. The flavor is great, and it proved to be very soothing for my strained vocal cords. I had serious problems with laryngitis in Columbus, so the effect was immediately noticeable.

Gerhard's Annotations on Romans 1-6

SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 14, 2014


Published: Gerhard's Commentary on Romans 1-6


It has been almost two years since I began translating and posting excerpts here on Intrepid Lutherans from Johann Gerhard's much-quoted (and oft misquoted) commentary on Romans. The entire work has finally been translated and edited, and is now available from Amazon, published byRepristination Press.

Annotations on the First Six Chapters of St. Paul's Epistle to the Romans
Amazon's summary:

Romans 1:16—For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. (KJV)

“The ‘power of God’ is the divine and efficacious means which God uses to save men, (1) because in it the benefits obtained by the suffering and death of Christ are offered, among which are also life and eternal salvation; (2) because through the preaching of the Gospel, God works the faith in hearts through which they embrace the good things offered in the Gospel and apply them to themselves; (3) because through the Gospel faith is preserved and increased, so that we are thus ‘guarded for salvation by the power of God, through faith’ (1 Pet. 1:5); (4) because, in all adversities and temptations, it furnishes a life-giving consolation, so that we may be preserved to eternal life under the weight of the cross.”

Gerhard's Annotations were incomplete at the time of his death; his son, Johann Ernst Gerhard, published them several years after his death. However, the Annotations are of enduring value and significance to the Church because in these first six chapters, Gerhard gives a clear treatment of the doctrine of Justification, and a model of Lutheran exegesis. Modern students of Holy Scripture will benefit from Gerhard's scholarship.

Honestly, the book is full of memorable quotations. In this one Gerhard summarizes the main theme that runs through the entire Epistle to the Romans:

“[Romans 1:17] explains the principal proposition of the entire Epistle, as a favorable opportunity presents itself at the end of the introduction. This principal proposition is that there is no other way to be justified before God except by faith in Christ, whom the Gospel sets before us, as confirmed by the prophetic testimony.”

Order Gerhard's Annotations here.

Gerhard was once cited by the UOJ Enthusiasts,
but he was not on their side.
They should quote Bishop Martin Stephan, STD, the founder of the Missouri Synod.