Monday, April 17, 2017

Roses on Sale - A Good Gamble

Peace is often difficult to buy later in the season.
I saw quite a few potted ones in the Walmart parking lot - $10.

The normal rose buying season starts in January. The mail carrier gives me those sad eyes as he delivers pounds of catalogs. I tell him, "They support your salary."

These catalogs and websites sell the hot, new items for nearly $30 each, with the warning - Supplies are short! Buy now or else!

By March the fanatics have bought theirs. The California grower (Regan Nursery) does not sell bare-root roses anymore, except for 2018.

Prices go down. If someone has enough contacts - and I do - offers come through for leftover bare-root roses. Springhill offered them for about $6 each, a few days ago. Their package was like Gurney's several years ago. One of each color (no names given), five for $30. A two-fer order for 10 would guarantee two of the same variety in each of the colors.

That sounds like Week's, the main source, which supplied Gurney's the same way, and all of those roses have done well.

Doubtless one could create an entire rose garden for very little with those prices. I actually bought 20 for a total of $100 and surrounded the maple tree - Week's Rose. They are some of my favorites, and they opened my eyes to many names that were older but excellent roses with special qualities.

Potted Roses a Bit Gone to Pot - Great Prices
This is a good time to buy bargain potted roses. Walmart opened up their parking lot for a big display of plants, just in time for wind and rain. They know how to cope with bigger messes than that one. The plants were falling off the stands before they were all set up.

The concept is good. I only go through the gardening department once a week, because our gardens are full of roses. And we have the previous great plants from Almost Eden - our next-door neighbor.

We saw Dolly Parton at a Walmart meeting,
but I have not grown the rose.
The plants I saw in the parking lot were very impressive,
with extra large blooms.

Walmart is selling Dolly Parton and Peace roses, potted - in full bloom, for $10. Like Lowe's, they get plants from one supplier who brings them in and beefs up the supply. Soda pop and commercial bread are stocked by vendors the same way. When the bread man came by the backroom at the Neighborhood Market where I worked, I solemnly announced, "Bread man walking."

These roses and plants are probably leftover from big gardening centers where each potted rose is all trimmed and blooming like crazy - hard to resist.

These leftover roses will do very well when planted, mulched, and pruned. They are also a good gamble, because relatively little is spent on each one.

Some gardening centers will do the same for leftover potted roses. The roses are snapped up fast because the people who frequently shop there are quick to spot a bargain rose.

 Hot Cocoa cost me $5:
the photo does not capture its glow in the garden.
One year it was a left-over. The next year it was difficult to find.


EASTER MONDAY

OR SECOND EASTER DAY.


TEXT:

Luke 24:13-35. And behold, two of them were going that very day to a village named Emmaus, which was three-score furlongs from Jerusalem. And they communed with each other of all these things which had happened. And it came to pass, while they communed and questioned together, that Jesus himself drew near, and went with them. But their eyes were holden that they should not know him. And he said unto them, What communications are these that ye have one with another, as ye walk? And they stood still looking sad. And one of them, named Cleopas, answering said unto him, Dost thou alone sojourn in Jerusalem and not know the things which are come to pass there in these days? And he said unto them, What things? And they said unto him, The things concerning Jesus the Nazarene, who was a prophet mighty in deed and word before God and all the people: and how the chief priests and our rulers delivered him up to be condemned to death, and crucified him. But we hoped that it was he who should redeem Israel. Yea and besides all this, it is now the third day since these things came to pass. Moreover certain women of our company amazed us, having been early at the tomb; and when they found not his body, they came, saying, that they had also seen a vision of angels, who said that he was alive. And certain of them that were with us went to the tomb, and found it even so as the women had said; but him they saw not. And he said unto them, O foolish men, and slow of heart to believe in all that the prophets have spoken! Behooved it not the Christ to suffer these things, and to enter into his glory? And beginning from Moses and from all the prophets, he interpreted to them in all the scriptures the things concerning himself. And they drew nigh unto the village, whither they were going: and he made as though he would go further. And they constrained him, saying, Abide with us; for it is toward evening, and the day is now far spent. And he went in to abide with them. And it came to pass, when he had sat down with them to meat, he took the bread and blessed; and breaking it he gave to them. And their eyes were opened, and they knew him; and he vanished out of their sight. And they said one to another, Was not our heart burning within us, while he spake to us in the way, while he opened to us the scriptures? And they rose up that very hour, and returned to Jerusalem, and found the eleven gathered together, and them that were with them, saying, The Lord is risen indeed, and hath appeared to Simon. And they rehearsed the things that happened in the way, and how he was known of them in the breaking of the bread.


I. THE PREPARATION FOR PARTAKING OF THE LORD’S SUPPER.

1. This Gospel, in one part, teaches and urges us to take pleasure in speaking and working for our Lord Jesus Christ. It does so by showing what fruit follows from such a course, although that fruit is not understood; and grasped so clearly as it ought to be. You see here that the two disciples are still full of unbelief; yet, as they are speaking about Jesus, and seemingly in vain, he can not remain absent from them; but draws near, opens their eyes and interprets to them the Scriptures. You ought to faithfully lay hold of this and retain it, for it is a precious thing. However, before I treat further of the Gospel, which is easy as to its history, I must first, for the sake of the simple and plain people, say a few things about the sacrament of the Lord’s Supper.

2. Beloved, you have heard that we preached who are worthy to receive the Lord’s Supper, namely, those who by the Word of God are moved in their hearts to believe, and that those who are not thus prepared ought to refrain from it. And it is right to deter everyone from rushing to it or going in one’s own preparation, as was formerly common. That is the right way to preach, and I would to God that many might be thus terrified. But again I notice in many, and in myself also, that the devil spirit presses the other side also too much, so as to cause hearts to be weary and backward in partaking of the communion, so that they never approach it unless they feel for a certainty that they are fervid in faith. This is also dangerous, since thereby we would do away with the preparation which was formerly customary, but would establish a new preparation that would also not be right.

3. We have rejected those who prepare to receive the sacrament by their own works, a thing that God abhors.

But by so doing we may easily cause people to become slow, so as always to wait until God comes and gives us perfect faith, so that they may go.

Hence we can never preach enough about faith, even if we preach long and earnestly about it, for our reason can never understand it. Hence, to meet this evil, we will treat it more at length and must divide it into two parts, or rather, into the two classes of persons who prepare to go to the Lord’s Supper.

4. In the first place we have taught that it did not profit any one to prepare for the sacrament by his own strength, as those did who endeavored by their confession and other works to make themselves worthy to receive it.

This is a terrible error and abuse, and the only true advice we can give those who undertake such things is to refrain from them and to keep far from the sacrament.

5. The other preparation, that is made in faith, and of which we have said enough before, is right, as it comes and proceeds from God. It is not done in such a way that one always feels confident he is worthy. Where would faith be if that were the case? But it takes place thus: Without any of my preparing and doing, God’s Word comes to me. I may indeed go and hear it, or read and preach it, so that it thus enters my heart. And that is the right preparation, which is not made by the power and cunning of man, but by the strength of God. Hence there is no better preparation for all the sacraments than to permit and suffer God to prepare us. This is a brief talk about the preparation. And now we will consider the communicants.

II. PERSONS FOR WHOM THE HOLY SUPPER IS NOT, AND FOR WHOM IT IS.

6. The Gospel and Word of God, which is a speech or discourse about Christ, sometimes falls upon the ears of those who do not accept it or even despise it; and, as Christ says in Luke 8:5, it falls by the wayside, that is, into hard, unprepared hearts.

7. Then there are others who are vile rascals and live in open vice. Matthew 13:22. Even though they hear the Gospel and never really oppose it, they are not much concerned about it. As you see our fanatics do now, who can greatly talk and spit about it, especially when they are full, and make light of it. They have grasped nothing of it, except a glibness in talking about it. They are all wicked hearts. Of this class are also those who live in deep avarice, so materialistic that they feel it. And thus they live in other gross sins and have little reverence for the holy Gospel, even if they are able to talk glibly about it. But we never care to preach to them, for all is lost on them and the Gospel makes them neither humble nor hungry.

8. Thirdly, the very worst are those who besides persecute the Gospel. Of them Christ says in Matthew 7:6: “Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast your pearls before the swine.” These three sects do not belong to the Gospel Church, and we are not preaching to them. And I wish the law were enforced and they were punished, — these rude swine, — who talk so foolishly about the Gospel as if it were a story of Theodocius of Bern, or some other tale. If any one will be a pig let him know what is becoming a pig. I really wish I could exclude them from my preaching, that they might never hear it, and be far away from it. They can do nothing but misuse the Gospel to their own injury, and disgrace us, so that for their own sake the Word of God must suffer dishonor and abuse.

Out with the dirty swine!

9. Finally, there are some who are like the people here in this Gospel.

Behold, how they still lack in faith, for they speak in this wise: “We hoped he would redeem Israel.” As if they meant to say: We do not know what the result will be. It is clearly evident that it will amount to nothing. He is dead now and even if he came to life again and arose from the dead, he surely cannot redeem the people and become a king. And so they thought redemption was a failure. Therefore the two disciples here are the multitude that taste the Gospel in their hearts and dislike to have it despised and disobeyed; but still they are so timid that they hesitate to draw near because they feel they are neither strong nor fervid enough. They draw back and do not want to approach near until they feel and experience that they are strong in faith. These are persons to whom the Gospel belongs, even though they stumble at times, so that they become disgusted with themselves, feel their disease and wish to get rid of it, and are not hard of heart. These should be urged and drawn to Christ. We have never yet preached to any but such people.

10. For it is the nature of faith that a man knows his faults and earnestly desires to be free from them. No one dare wait until God performs a miraculous sign for him, and treats him differently from other people to whom he gives the signs in the Gospel and in the sacraments. God gave us the treasure and revealed it for the purpose alone that we should go and get it. Hence, when you feel your weakness, you ought to go and say: My Lord, I have fallen. I want to be strong. Now thou hast instituted the Lord’s Supper for us to kindle and strengthen our faith thereby and that we might be thus helped. So here I am and wish to receive it. This should be our comfort and we ought joyfully to use the Word and the sacraments when we feel our lack of faith, and rejoice to receive aid to seek help and strength. There our souls find it within us.

11. For you must not make Christ a tyrant, but accept him for what he in truth is and let him be unto you nothing but rich, abounding grace.

However, if you feel in your heart you have not reached this point and do not believe, and yet would like to believe, you must after all not despair and shun the communion, but seek your help right there, so that your faith may be kindled and increased.

For, though some have been terribly punished for partaking of the sacrament unworthily and without faith, they are only those whom we described above, namely, the hardened, wicked hearts. You must do and think thus: Lord, see, that is thy Word and this is my sickness and failing.

Thou thyself hast said, “Come unto me all ye that are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28. Do you think he said that to those who are already fervid and strong in faith? His kingdom is not established to the end of furthering the righteous, Matthew 9:3, but of helping sinners and making them righteous. 1 Timothy 1:15. Hence, whoever is weak and experiences it, should go to the communion and let God help him.

12. But there is another herd not on the right track. We have prophets abroad in the land who teach the people too freely to be bold and defiant, who speak with the divine Majesty as they would with a cobbler’s apprentice. These impudent and proud spirits are by no means to be followed. It is well for you to be backward and timid, and to fear and tremble. I like such fear. You just abide in it and go and have your conscience calmed. But such proud minds and unbroken hearts that act so defiantly and deal with God as if he must be afraid of them, he cannot tolerate.

13. Therefore you must humble yourself, and abide in fear so as to feel your struggles and weaknesses, and desire faith. If you experience that, then thank God, for that is a sure sign the Word has struck and moved you, and exercises, constrains and impels you.

What sort of faith would that be if I went and had no fear and anguish of heart to exercise my faith? For it is the very nature of faith, that it proves its strength in fear, in death and sins, and in all things that make a human being afraid and timid. Therefore if you feel thus, it is the proper time for you to go, for then your faith will find something to do. And to this end private confession is helpful. It is well to go to a pious man, and point out your need to him and ask advice, whether he thinks you are worthy to go to the Lord’s Supper, and then follow his advice. That is the real’ purpose of confession and of the sacrament. They are of no other use and are instituted for the purpose of assisting weak consciences that are burdened by their sins.

14. But you say: How then, if I am so inert and cold that I have no desire for it, still I feel that I need it; yet the Gospel and the sacrament do not satisfy me so that almost every spark in my heart is extinguished? Answer:

You must not desist. For as long as you feel that you are not yet lost and not yet so wicked as those described above; for you always wish to burn with zeal. Therefore you must do as follows: Take to yourself the Word of God, go and hear it preached, read it, write it or even sing it, only so you live it and keep busy with it, then you will experience something. Then go to the Lord’s Supper and say: Lord, I am a lazy character; but I come that thou shouldst help me and kindle my heart. Add to it whatever words and thought you can think and say. You must not stop to think how to prepare yourself to be worthy for the communion; you are already prepared if you feel that you would gladly be helped, and your need constrains you to go.

15. It has often happened to me that I hesitated and thus departed farther from it, until I saw nothing helped me and I had to go. Thus you also will find that it is the devil’s spectre that draws people away so that the more they are afraid and wait until they experience faith in their hearts, the farther they drift from it. And at last, if they continue in this state, all desire and impulse, both toward the Word and the sacrament, dies out in them, and they never come. Hence you must put aside such thoughts and fear, and go and ask God to help you. If you do so often, you will experience that you will gain more and more desire for it, a thing you would not have gained otherwise. Therefore I wish you would do this, and that there were many to go to the sacrament in such a frame of mind and would gain more and more pleasure in it, and become stronger and stronger. But if you do not go, you will always remain cold and will ever grow colder and colder.

16. This ought to comfort you, and you will experience it if you try it. For it is impossible for God’s Word not to produce fruit and be a blessing. God spake as follows: “For as the rain cometh down and the snow from heaven and returneth not thither but watereth the earth and maketh it bring forth and bud, and giveth seed to the sower and bread to the eater; so shall my Word be that goeth forth out of my mouth; it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.” Isaiah 55:10-11.

This Scripture ought to make us very bold and happy, if we have already grown cold. By the grace of God we have God’s Word and we ought to raise our hands and thank him for it. How many are there in the world who do not possess it? How could you otherwise have obtained it? There you have the whole supply and the preparation that serves it, and yet you have knavery enough to contend with it. Therefore, as God says that his Word will not return without fruit and if you use it not to make a mockery of it, but are in earnest about it, you will undoubtedly feel and experience something, and the more you use it, the more you will have this experience.

You cannot have evil thoughts in your heart if you take a portion of the Scriptures before you and read it, or you meet another person and converse with him about it. If you do this, evil lusts will succumb and the flesh will be subdued. I have often tried it, and if you try it you will also find the fruits and experience that it is as God says. What more do you wish prepared for you?

17. Isaiah it not enough that you possess God’s Word that draws you, and besides that you feel your distress driving you to it? And then Christ is there and waits to help you. What more shall he do? And there is nobody excluded but proud, insolent persons and the castaways that are not in earnest. Therefore you must go and remember that Christ looks more deeply into your heart than you do yourself, as you see in this Gospel.

These two poor men would not have dared to wish for what meets them.

Yet such grace is bestowed upon them that Christ himself comes to them, while speaking of him, and reveals himself so that they know him. This fills their hearts with joy that they could not tarry there but ran and told the other disciples how the Lord manifested himself to them. Then they are full of joy, as they would not have dared to wish; but still it was so deep in their hearts that they themselves did not perceive that they desired it, although their hearts were so set upon it that they would have loved to see nothing better than for the Lord Jesus Christ to rise from the dead and be king. Therefore God looks more deeply into the depths of the heart than we ourselves, and he also gives us more than we desire. Thus he does also here. If you feel that you are not so fervent as you would like to be, he looks more deeply into your heart than you do, since you are anxious to be fully set on fire and become a burning light. Therefore you ought not to flee from him, but approach boldly.

18. To this end many passages in Paul’s writings serve. For example, he says to the Ephesians: “The Lord is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think.” Ephesians 3:20. Now we clearly see what he gives us when we receive it and we feel that we receive it with joy.

Therefore St. Paul says that we do not see nor even think of it while we desire it; but the Lord, who searcheth the hearts, sees and understands our desire, and therefore he bestows upon us his grace abundantly. Thus we read of St. Monica, the mother of St. Augustine, that she wept for her son during nine long years. It was her heart’s desire for him to become a Christian, and she devised many plans by which to bring him to Christ. She wanted him to marry a Christian woman who should make a plain Christian husband of him. But she did not dare to hope or expect him to become the man he did later, although she would have gladly seen it.

19. Then look at the examples all through the Gospel. St. Peter was too timid when the Lord wished to wash his feet and said, “Shouldest thou wash my feet?” and did not understand that his need compelled him, and his heart urged him, to see the necessity of Christ’s washing him, as he said soon after, “Lord, not my feet only, but also my hands and my head.” John 13:9. And our heart is in the same condition, that we wish to see the Lord Jesus present, to help us, and yet we are so timid that we are afraid of him and do not think as much of his loving kindness as we freely profess to do. For, if we considered him to be what he is, we would say as Peter did, “Wash not my feet only, but also my hands and my head,” and think, now I will gladly go to him, even if I had a greater burden of sin.

There is likewise another example of St. Peter in Luke 5:6-8, when they sat in the ship and caught so many fishes that their nets broke. Then Peter was amazed, fell down at Jesus’ knees and said, “Depart from me, I am a sinful man, O Lord.”

Notice he was frightened and bids him to go away at the very time he ought to pray him to come. Thus our timid nature is ever afraid of Christ, in whom there is nothing but good, and who has come to help everybody.

That is why I said, we must not make a tyrant of Christ, but suffer him to be a dear Lord and Savior, who has no other desire but to help sinners, and to invite and attract everybody by his words and example.

20. This exposition of the nature of faith is clear enough, for our great trouble is that we do not really understand the nature of faith. Therefore do this: Begin and try it and you will experience it; and the more you practice it, the more comfort and strength you will experience; and the more unworthy you feel you are, the more you must appropriate God’s Word to yourself and practice it, hear or read it and speak about it, and you will always find and prove something that pleases and moves you. You should besides pray to God and say as the apostles did in Luke 17:5: “Lord, increase my faith.” Thus go and you will be strengthened. But if you dwell too much on your timidity you will never go; for then you will persist to feel and not to believe. You must experience your misery and struggles of conscience. Then is the time for you to go to the Lord’s Supper. Even if you are weak in faith you must not on that account step back, for he will not reject you since he has come for the sole purpose of strengthening the weak and comforting the despondent.

21. But I do not wish to have all this preached to hardened insolent characters and the fanatics, but only to consciences that are faint and weak, and occasionally fall, so that they do not despond, but know where to find help and comfort. On this point a father in the desert uttered a wise saying.

When he saw that a brother was weak and faint, he said: No, my brother, thou must not withdraw thus and go back, for thou mightest go back so far that thou couldest not return. For it is to be feared that the longer we stay away, the colder and lazier we become. They ought to stay away, as we have said at length, who lead a wicked and immoral life and do not intend to amend their ways. But those who know their weaknesses and want to be rid of them and see that they cannot help themselves, they should come to the communion for help.

22. From this you see why God instituted and ordained that his Word should be preached; and therefore it ought not to be despised. It is true that the Word without the Spirit is of no use; but since God Almighty himself said, as we have heard, “My Word that goeth forth out of my mouth, shall not return unto me void,” it must not be despised. For through his Word he gives the Holy Spirit into your hearts and will not suffer you to gape and wait for a miraculous sign from heaven, to be done on you, and thus to ignore his Word and sacrament. He himself highly esteems and praises the Word, for he has decreed to give his grace through it, as Christ says, “No man can come to me, except the Father that sent me, draw him.” John 6:44. How does the Father draw us? Through Christ. How through Christ?

By the Word. Thus he invites and calls you. If your need impels you, go then joyfully, tell your trouble bravely; but always bring the Word with you.

23. But leave it to God, how you may remain steadfast, and go now, while you have the Word and feel your misery. Then the Word itself will teach you how to prepare yourself aright. For then you must accuse yourself before God and say: Lord, I am a sinner and cannot help myself by my own strength, so I come to thee for help. If I have sufficient grace only to delight in the Word of God with my whole heart and I have joy and pleasure in it, I can surely remain steadfast. For it must be something great for God to give me his Word and cause it to be pleasing and attractive to me. Even if I am not so strong now as I ought to be, I shall grow stronger in time and at last reach the point when I can confess his grace without fear and devote my life to it. Therefore Christ says: “Ask and it shall be given you, seek and ye shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you, for everyone that asketh, receiveth; and he that seeketh, findeth, and to him that knocketh, it shall be opened.” Matthew 7:7-8.

24. Therefore I would faithfully admonish you to act wisely in this matter.

We have justly condemned those who undertake to prepare themselves by their own works; but we have invited those who feel their need and see they can do nothing by their own power, and can find neither counsel nor help, for these use the Lord’s, Supper unto their personal salvation.

Therefore, if you feel thus, go first to a pious man and tell him your distress and say, Lo, I have fallen and would like to obtain help and I ask for counsel what to do. Then he should comfort him and welcome him to the sacrament, so that he may exercise his faith and be strengthened. For it is instituted for this very purpose of ministering comfort and strength.

Therefore let nothing keep you from the communion. If you feel bashful, it is well, for you must feel your unworthiness. If you however do not feel your guilt, you are not in a fit frame of mind to go, and it will be better for you to refrain from going.

25. Take the Gospel and the Holy Scriptures before you, the more the better, even if you already know them and have often read them. For it is certainly a suggestion of the devil who tries to tear from you your delight in the Word. He hates to have you come to it, for he knows very well what fruit it bears in you. If you are thus busy with the Word and strive to live it the best you can, you will see that Christ is with you and a fire is kindled in your heart. But the best is, for two or three earnestly to speak among themselves about it, so that the living voice is heard. Then you will be much stronger and the devil must yield. Thus all evil lust and thoughts disappear and thus will ensue such a light and knowledge, you have never before experienced. The only trouble is that we fools have such a great treasure lying before our doors and do not know how to use it. And the devil deceives us in order to draw us away from it and make us indifferent, because he can not overcome it. Therefore we must prepare to resist the devil’s suggestions and influence. In like manner Christ will come and reveal himself even though at first you are not aware of it; the more you speak about it and discuss it the more clearly you will recognize Christ and feel that he kindles your heart within you, as you heard in this Gospel of the two disciples journeying to, the village of Emmaus.

III. THE CONCLUSION.

26. This I had to preach now concerning the Lord’s Supper and the Gospel, as God gave us the light, and I admonish you, my friends, to grasp and faithfully use it. If there be fanatics, who disgrace the Gospel, they ought to be punished by the civil authorities. But we must let them also hear, for the sake of the righteous, for we are to preach God’s Word publicly to everybody, since we do not know whom it may strike.

Bethany Greek Students - Beginning Greek: A Functional Approach: Stephen W. Paine: 9780195010138: Amazon.com: Books



Beginning Greek: A Functional Approach: Stephen W. Paine: 9780195010138: Amazon.com: Books:



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GJ - The price ranges from about $25 on Amazon to double that in other places.

I suggest this book if you want handy charts on the nouns and pronouns, the verbs and the irregular verbs.

This book uses John 1-6 to teach basic grammar and vocabulary, so it is good for explaining the details. Xenophon in the back - bonus!

This class will also make Lenski's Interpretation of John a very useful commentary. Lenski explains all the issues with understanding the Greek text, plus various doctrinal debates. I do not like his playing around with the "proper text," a fad created by Wescott and Hort - and the fraud Tischendorf.

The best way to learn is by using the Greek text only until there is a big problem. Then use Jimmy or Lenkski. I used a German book with LI to explain certain passage. Ja, sehr gut. That may be why he was so fast in learning various computer languages - many computer languages.

I do not think Paine is absolutely necessary, but some will find it useful, especially if they want to advance in NT Greek.

My argument is thus - learn to read the entire Gospel in Greek, then use that knowledge to learn the fine points of grammar. At some point you will begin to read the Gospel and no longer translate it. The brain does that overnight, like the seed growing secretly in Mark.

If Mama taught you to speak by reciting rules of grammar to you and handing you vocabulary lists, then I will withdraw my argument for this relative ease in learning a new language.


One way to self-teach is to pick a defined text, such as one Johannine epistle and write out a translation in your own words.

Or pick a series of well known NT sayings we all know, and read them in Greek.

Don't Promise Them Roses for Next Sunday - She Said


We have had five inches of rain in the last 24 hours or so. The backyard has standing water. The rain-barrels are full, and the orange roses are blooming.

A few days ago, Mrs. Ichabod responded to my rose predictions - "Don't promise roses next Sunday. Don't even mention it."

I saw budding all over the garden, before the torrential rains last night. Hybrid tea roses form their roses slowly, so there was reason for caution. But shrub roses - KnockOuts - and floribundas have smaller and faster-growing roses.

I said this morning, after walking Sassy, as if I had something to do with it, "The orange roses are blooming. Not about to bloom. They are in bloom."

Everyone would have been content with the Easter Sunday rain, about 2 inches. The additional rain will help the moisture deepen in the clay soil, which was turning white from the drought.

As Ichabodians recall, we heavily mulched the area next to the new Crepe Myrtles, so we have a mass of shredded cyprus covering the cardboard, instead of soggy cardboard with little logs on top.

Falling in Love (pink/white)
and Veteran's Honor.

The rain this week will also disclose which roses were alive but not growing yet. Improbably, the roses planted around the maple tree came up first and bloomed first. Falling in Love roses are slow-growing, but worth it for their blooms. They are thorny and touchy, so I think an English cousin named them for fun - or possibly as a warning.

 The largest rose under a maple tree?
Both Bride's Dream rose bushes bloomed well last year.

Divine Management at All Levels


Sassy Sue is unusually good at communicating with us, perhaps because we spend so much time together. If she suspects someone is threatening her backyard, she lets us know. It may be a Cox repairman, someone different next door, or a new pet at the Gardener's home.

The basis for Creation Gardening is an assumption, well grounded in data and experience, that God manages His property well - far better than we do.

Everything has a purpose and nothing is wasted in His Creation. If conditions are changed, everything adjusts to the shift in resources. I captured as much cardboard as I could to finish mulching the front yard. Where grass and weeds once flourished, roses and companion plants grow and flower.

The weeds have not given up. Some poke through the armor of cardboard and mulch. Birds thoughtfully plant their favorite foods, as swaths of wild strawberries decorate the mulch. The wind blows in the rest of them, easily found and removed. The English ivy from the house joins the party wherever possible, not only as cheerful plants on top but also as runners underneath the mulch, trying to conquer the rose garden for ever-growing evergreen ivy.

The stumps from trimming the maple were scattered at first, but now they are finding some order in the rose garden. Most onlookers question the stumps. Several serve as tables where I can set up rose vases, to reduce tramping through the garden to put roses in water after cutting.

All the stumps show signs of another purpose. They are spotted with bird dung, showing the platforms are highly favored as safe places for birds to preen and search for food. My neighbor asked how birds find their food, by listening? "They seem to listen for insect and worm movement." I said, "They also like a safe perch so they can look down on the mulch and spot movement."



Likewise, I took all the pieces of twine from the roses and draped them over the large Crepe Myrtle. A bird sees them as building material for the nest, so attractive that one robin played tug-of-war with string I was using on a pea-vine, long ago. She would not give up on that string. And if a prized possession is dropped in flight - the bird will come down and reclaim it at once.

The birds love to see me digging. I will invariably turn up insects, grubs, and earthworms. The birds seem to be chortling among themselves as they watch. Watering the plants is another opportunity.

I do a little work every day, but not that much in the garden. Divine management takes over, gathering and organizing the soil creatures, birds, plants, moles, and neighborhood cats to do the real work.

I spend a lot more time broadcasting the living seed of the Word than the packets of seed I buy. The results are similar. God manages the results of His effective Word. No synod bully will ever admit to that. They imagine they are managing everything - protecting their felons and persecuting the faithful. If they were gardeners, they would be arrested by the EPA or PETA.



Beautiful Savior - A Favorite Hymn






Sunday, April 16, 2017

Rolf Preus Atttacks Walther's UOJ on LutherQuest - Truly an Epic Feat

 If Rolf tried his faux-exegesis on a group outside the narrow confines
of the Walther cult, he would last no longer than
a car battery from Sears.

The UOJ salesmen try so hard to prove my assertions right:

  1. They have no concept of the efficacy of the Word, contra-Luther.
  2. They cannot connect their buffoonery to the Means of Grace and stay silent on that topic for that very reason.
  3. They contradict each other - undermining the Great Walther even while bowing before CFW's multiple shrines in Missouri (the state).


Rolf Preus:
The grace of God is locatable. It isn’t floating out in space. It’s not there in the beautiful sunset or the cool waters of the forest stream or even in the laughter of a little child. These are beautiful things, but they don’t grant you the forgiveness of your sins. God’s grace is located where his dear Son suffers and dies. It is as Jesus suffers on the cross that he intercedes: “Father, forgive them.”

However, Rolf's dogma floats and blows away like foam. Does he connect grace with the Word? With the Means of Grace? He seems to be afraid to say the precious words - Objective Justification - but he is certainly trying to teach the same thing he goes back to prop up with another volley of words.

The grace of God is located in the Gospel Word. Therefore, the entire world was NOT absolved of sin the moment Christ died. Hardly anyone in the world heard or knew this Word, although there were a few.

What Rolf teaches is pure Enthusiasm, detaching the Holy Spirit from the work of God. He should study the Smalcald Articles on this topic - or Melanchthon's Apology on Justification by Faith - Romans 4.


I am disturbed that Rolf has departed from Walther's dogma, which he got from his syphilitic bishop, which Stephan got from Halle University during a brief stay there. OK, the Bohemians were Pietists, so Stephan probably knew the Easter absolution before Halle.



If the entire world was absolved without faith on Good Friday, then what do the Friday-ists do with the equally absurd Easter absolution? They ignore this issue. How can Rolf be so contrary within the Walther cult?

The Cascione Synod was really quite far-sighted in gathering around a group website called LutherQuest so they could attack Luther's doctrine and preach Walther into heaven.

They anticipated their synods getting together on the basis of hating Luther's doctrine. The Little Sect on the Prairie, the LCMS, and WELS agree on Universal Forgiveness and Salvation without Faith. That is their Helen of Troy, their Rosetta Stone, their basis for cooperation and merger.

Calling the website LutherCide would have been more honest, but perhaps too frank for this era's group of moonstruck Lutherans.



Rolf...again
Jesus is the righteous man. When he, who was suffering and dying for the sin of the world, prayed his Father to forgive those for whom he was dying, that is exactly what his Father did. In the death of Jesus, God forgave the sin of the world. As John the Baptist said, “Behold the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world.” As he was bearing that sin and taking it away he prayed his Father for the forgiveness he was purchasing by his blood. And the Father forgave.

Rolf has never figured this out, so rooted is he in Norwegian Pietism. The Atonement is not Justification. The Atonement (with various synonyms) is the act of Jesus in paying for the sins of the world.

 Poor old JP Meyer and his stupefied editors -
the only saints in the Bible are believers.


Justification by Faith is a description of what happens when the Gospel Word is preached or taught to individuals. The Holy Spirit works through the Gospel Word to plant faith in their hearts, from the baptized baby to the converted adult. This faith receives the truth of the Atonement.

Objective Justification is nothing more than cowardly Universalism. Their precious Subjective Justification simply the acceptance of  cowardly Universalism. Walther spells it out in the graphic above. The OJ/SJ terms come from a Calvinist translating the dominant theological work of a Halle Pietist. The Lutheran Reformation did not use those terms, and the post-Concord theologians crushed and exiled the heretic who tried to argue Rolf's line of baloney.

Rolf contradicts Rolf
This forgiveness is received in one way and in one way only: through faith in Jesus, who suffered and died for us. God forgives the whole world for Jesus’ sake. All those and only those who trust in Jesus receive forgiveness and have forgiveness. All those and only those who believe in the gospel of Christ can regard themselves as forgiven by God.

If this is true, then the previous words in the same post! are false. I would like to see the clear explanation of Romans 4 or 10. Instead, Rolf hovers between his precious OJ and the distant vision, still cloudy to him, of Justification by Faith, the efficacious Word in the Means of Grace.

 Calov anticipated Rolf's colossal blunders
in this area and refuted them.
  I heard Robert Preus talk about how much he loved the precision
of Quenstedt. He wanted to name a son Quenstedt.
The entire program of Walther, Pieper, JP Meyer,
Valleskey, Rolf Preus, Jay Webber, and many other dolts
is vanquished by this surgically precise hit on UOJ.

New Bird Detected - The Fuzzy-Tailed Food Thief.
Sassy Wears a Sweater to an Estate Sale

This young squirrel figured out how to balance on the
Jackson EZ Bird Swing and feed. He did not mind the camera.

This was too funny not to photograph. Readers can see some features of the bird feeding area:

  1. Two hanging bird-feeders, from Lowe's.
  2. Three children's swimming pools, which are bird-baths.
  3. The finch feeder is the green area under the squirrel tail.
  4. Two Butterfly Bushes are greening up. The large one is the waiting room for the birds and the elevator for the squirrels.
  5. The area is covered in cardboard and leaves, but the perimeter has such plants as Chaste Tree, Spice Bush, Gooseberry, Raspberries, and Beautyberry.
  6. One rain-barrel is positioned for the Butterfly bushes. They get the rain, then extra rain from the roof, then a bonus a few days later from the rain-barrel. Three other rain-barrels and four five-gallon paint buckets (totally clean) capture water. Last night's rain gave us two inches.
  7. There are smaller logs around the tiny Butterfly Bush. It may find its size this year.
  8. Larger stumps are planted in the yard. Birds adore having a place to perch and preen their feathers. They also like a watchtower for spotting food rustling in the leaf-mulch.
  9. Stumps and logs also attract toads and foster fungal growth in the soil.
  10. The massive green area is a planting of Elderberry, just behind the squirrel's body.
  11. The Wild Garden is in the back, with many features to screen the view and encourage the birds.

Our teen helper said, "You must have a lot of birds in your yard." Every time I open the back door, about twenty birds and several squirrels scatter.

The greatest pleasure is having an all-day display of birds eating at two windows. A male Cardinal is often eating, three feet away, no longer worried that I am watching him.

Chris took Sassy to the estate sale, with Sassy wearing her
new sweater. Both of them rocked their outfits.

The photography session was over when the doorbell rang. Our neighbor gave Sassy a dog-sweater, which Sassy was eager to wear. We trotted over to the estate sale to show it off. That was 1/2 block trek.

We visited with most of our neighbors on the block - and their relatives - during the Easter weekend.


At the Lamb’s High Feast We Sing - Comfort for Christians



At the Lamb’s High Feast We Sing - Comfort for Christians:


"What is a Passover Sacrifice?
Christianity cannot really be understood in any depth apart from a knowledge of the first five books of the Old Testament. Genesis and Exodus particularly are historical records of God’s actions in relation to human beings.

Then Moses called for all the elders of Israel, and said unto them, Draw out and take you a lamb according to your families, and kill the passover. And ye shall take a bunch of hyssop, and dip it in the blood that is in the bason, and strike the lintel and the two side posts with the blood that is in the bason; and none of you shall go out at the door of his house until the morning. For the LORD will pass through to smite the Egyptians; and when he seeth the blood upon the lintel, and on the two side posts, the LORD will pass over the door, and will not suffer the destroyer to come in unto your houses to smite you. -Exodus 12:21-23"



'via Blog this'

Easter Sunday, 2017. Mark 16:1-8.
Easter Means Eternal Life


Easter Sunday, 2017

Pastor Gregory L. Jackson



Note major storms are moving through, so Cox may conk out.

The Hymn #191               Christ the Lord                                  
The Confession of Sins
The Absolution
The Introit p. 16
The Gloria Patri
The Kyrie p. 17
The Gloria in Excelsis
The Salutation and Collect p. 19
The Epistle and Gradual       
The Gospel              
Glory be to Thee, O Lord!
Praise be to Thee, O Christ!
The Nicene Creed p. 22
The Sermon Hymn #188                Hallelujah                                

Easter Means Eternal Life


The Preface p. 24
The Sanctus p. 26
The Lord's Prayer p. 27
The Words of Institution
The Agnus Dei p. 28
The Nunc Dimittis p. 29
The Benediction p. 31
The Hymn #657            Beautiful Savior

The Easter lilies are in memory of our members and family who have passed into everlasting life, most recently Tammy Jackson's mother, Liliys Frystak.

Happy 26th Anniversary, Brett and Amy Meyer. "May every day be like your wedding day." German blessing.


KJV 1 Corinthians 5:6 Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump? 7 Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our passover is sacrificed for us: 8 Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.

KJV Mark 16:1 And when the sabbath was past, Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of James, and Salome, had bought sweet spices, that they might come and anoint him. 2 And very early in the morning the first day of the week, they came unto the sepulchre at the rising of the sun. 3 And they said among themselves, Who shall roll us away the stone from the door of the sepulchre? 4 And when they looked, they saw that the stone was rolled away: for it was very great. 5 And entering into the sepulchre, they saw a young man sitting on the right side, clothed in a long white garment; and they were affrighted. 6 And he saith unto them, Be not affrighted: Ye seek Jesus of Nazareth, which was crucified: he is risen; he is not here: behold the place where they laid him. 7 But go your way, tell his disciples and Peter that he goeth before you into Galilee: there shall ye see him, as he said unto you. 8 And they went out quickly, and fled from the sepulchre; for they trembled and were amazed: neither said they any thing to any man; for they were afraid.


Easter

Lord God, heavenly Father, who didst deliver Thy Son for our offenses, and didst raise Him again for our justification: We beseech Thee, grant us Thy Holy Spirit, that He may rule and govern us according to Thy will; graciously keep us in the true faith; defend us from all sins, and after this life raise us unto eternal life, through the same, Thy beloved Son, who liveth and reigneth with Thee and the Holy Ghost, one true God, world without end. Amen.

Easter Means Eternal Life

KJV Mark 16:1 And when the sabbath was past, Mary Magdalene, and Mary the mother of James, and Salome, had bought sweet spices, that they might come and anoint him. 2 And very early in the morning the first day of the week, they came unto the sepulchre at the rising of the sun.

The Easter narratives are in all four Gospels, and Simon Greenleaf - an lawyer famous for his expertise in evidence - found them to be entirely without conflict. He tried to find contradictions and found harmony  instead.

As Luther said in his third sermon, knowing the history is not enough. That is why some of the rationalists like get people to focus on the history - or rather their own version of history -  and take them away from the meaning. But others have no interest in the facts and want to use Easter as an experience, so they write about the "Easter faith of the disciples." That reminds us of the people in the Bible who "thought they were sick, blink, leprous, and dead", but recovered as soon as they thought otherwise.

The Easter narratives can be compared to an elaborate machine that is found completely disassembled and scattered. That is how the disciples felt after the crucifixion of Jesus. In spite of His teaching, they had certain notions about Him and their lives with Him. But He was arrested, tortured, and killed, and they were scattered, as predicted in the Old Testament. "I will strike the Shepherd and the sheep will be scattered." Zechariah 13:7

The task of the risen Lord is to take those same parts, the miracles and sermons and long periods of tutoring - and put them together again. There is a short time period for this, compared to the relatively leisurely three years they spent together.

Thus when Mary saw the empty tomb, she was stricken. As a grieving person, she wanted another chance to serve her Lord. So the emptiness of the tomb was a shock, adding more to her fears and confusion. In John, she did not recognize Him until He spoke her name, "Mary." Ah, He was alive, so she continue to serve Him as she did before. That is why Jesus did not let her cling to Him because "He had not yet gone to the Father." She was not longer a servant to Him, as Luther observed, but a messenger to the disciples who were locked up - for fear of the Jews. 

As they get over the shock and confusion, the risen Lord will put together their experiences and teaching and show how it all had to be, according to the Scriptures. The renewal of their training will send them out into a hostile world, preaching the crucified Messiah, the Risen Lord.

As we can see from Mark's account, the women were coming to the tomb to help, as women do at many churches. This was their funeral procession, bringing spices, and they were too stricken with grief to think about the obvious.



3 And they said among themselves, Who shall roll us away the stone from the door of the sepulchre?

The tomb was locked as far as they knew. A stone lid was placed in a groove in front of the tomb - not an enormous boulder that only Caterpillar could move (see some paintings). The idea was that several men together could move the stone, but the casual robber was prevented by the mass of the stone.

The women were prepared for something they could not do - enter the tomb. Nothing portrays the chaos of grief so well as this example of group confusion. The Gospels construct this picture of before and after the Resurrection, with a lot of details about the transition from fear to faith. The transition shows us how they reacted by returning to the normal mode of thinking, as if this were one more death, another tragedy in a world oppressed by the Pharisees and Romans.

The disciples were afraid and locked up, fully aware of what they had done at the hour of crisis. They could not even stay awake while Jesus was praying, or stand fast when He was arrested. They would call themselves the Intrepid Lutherans today.

And although Jesus upbraided the disciples for their actions and words, He was overall rather friendly and cheerful with them. I have known mothers who smile about how they deal with a toddler's fears, such as spraying water into the room that possibly hides a monster. Anyone can say, "There is no monster. Don't be a baby." But fear creates its own reality, as it did for the disciples.

How could it have ever entered their hearts that Christ would send such an affectionate greeting and such a kind good-morning to them who had been so disloyal and denied him, and would not only forgive everything, but also call them his dear brethren? Or who can believe and grasp it today? I myself would like to believe it at times, but I cannot get it into my heart so completely that I dare rely upon it wholly, and dare count it to be really true. Yea, if we only could, we would be in heavenly bliss already in this life, and would fear neither death, nor the devil, nor the world, but our hearts would constantly bound for joy, and sing to God an eternal Te Deum Laudamus, i.e. We praise thee, O God.

10. But alas, this is not the case upon earth; our miserable beggar’s bag, this old hide of ours, is too cramped. Therefore, the Holy Spirit must come to our rescue, not only to preach the Word to us, but also to enlarge and impel us from within, yea, even to employ the devil, the world and all kinds of afflictions and persecutions to this end. Just as a pig’s bladder must be rubbed with salt and thoroughly worked to distend it, so this old hide of ours must be well salted and plagued until we call for help and cry aloud, and so stretch and expand ourselves, both through internal and through external suffering, that we may finally succeed and attain this heart and cheer, joy and consolation, from Christ’s resurrection.

Even in God's creation, we do not see the obvious until someone points it out to us. A tiny example is what we should expect from certain plants. I became interested in the ones hosting beneficial insects, so much that I look for those little creatures when a new flower is introduced. I bought two Shasta Daisies for the bugs, not the flowers. I planted them and the flowers were adorned with various beneficial bugs, including one known (yet ignored) for its ferocious work - the Tachinid fly. They were always there, and yet not seen, disregarded as one more bug, like many episodes in the Scriptures which only teach us when we are ready to be taught.

4 And when they looked, they saw that the stone was rolled away: for it was very great. 

When they finally realized they could never get into the tomb to do their work, they were just as rattled by the fact of it being open, then being empty except for the angelic messengers. Step by step we can imagine ourselves in the same mental situation, slowly adjusting to the miraculous. 

Thus we visited a boy who was in dire circumstances in the hospital. It looked very bleak, and we prayed with his mother. When he recovered fully, that hardly seemed possible, that he could be close to death and then oblivious to such dangers. And we saw another boy - very weak at birth. So every time we saw him later, strong and active, we recalled that initial dread at seeing him so helpless in the plastic NICU box.

5 And entering into the sepulchre, they saw a young man sitting on the right side, clothed in a long white garment; and they were affrighted.

Not expecting angels, they were frightened by the unexpected again. These little details are worth so much because the Holy Spirit is especially concise in the Gospel of Mark. The hot-air merchants want us to listen to them, so they pass by these telling phrases the way a cow walks by a sanctuary. They do not stop for the treasure because they want to sell their fool's gold as real.

Some will say, "God wants you to be a winner!" And others will say, "The entire world was absolved of all sin, the moment Jesus rose from the dead." No one stops to ask how that needed to happen again, after Jesus absolved the unbelieving world at His death. Thus people get used to foolishness and get increasingly used to false doctrine from all directions.

The women were frightened because we are always scared by the unexpected. That is basis for many pranks, such as jumping of a box. The reactions are not always pleasant, because we want to run or fight. One famous sub commander said he was in a "running and gunning battle." The Japanese were gunning and he was running.

So the same figure can be frightening or consoling. For many people, the Savior is frightening because He has always been taught as a condemning law-giver. But John says, "The Law came through Moses; grace and truth through Jesus Christ." (John 1)

The angels should be consoling but they frighten the women. There are many messengers sent by God, coming in various forms. They are not always certified angels from heaven, but people who act on His behalf, even in a negative way. When I encountered church leaders hostile to the Word, enemies of their own rules, I thought, "This is a motivation to take the Word elsewhere." My natural wish was to stay in place, enjoy security, and have a very short resume. The sudden stroke of our previous landlord forced a move when the quasi-widow had to liquidate their properties at once. That landed us on a perfect street for us, where Sassy and I visited with all the people we knew best on one day, Holy Saturday. That even led to our late neighbor dying as a Lutheran believer rather than as a cult member.

But I also believe very much in angels who guard and protect us from many dangers. Many of us can say, "I was a fraction of a second from disaster." We told our son he kept all his guardian angels busy when he was young - but later as well.

The hostile angels are the ones who hate the Word and act accordingly. No one is as energetic, organized, and methodical as these. And yet they only harden their own hearts as they enjoy their moments of victory. The hostile angels make us appreciate the Scriptures, the Book of Concord, Luther, Chemnitz, and Melanchthon. They make us rooted and grounded in the Word.

One pastor wrote about his experiences with Justification without Faith. He is building up his congregation with sound teaching, his family with his love and support. He reminds me of Mr. Gardener who always wanted a zoysia lawn. That is a grass that grows so densely and deep that no weeds can find a place. The best attack against false doctrine is to leave it no place to grow. Zoysia grows so well that it is demanding of food and water, so a congregation based on sound doctrine must be constantly nurtured with the Word and the actual Confessions (not just a nod to them accompanied by pious pledge in Latin).

6 And he saith unto them, Be not affrighted: Ye seek Jesus of Nazareth, which was crucified: he is risen; he is not here: behold the place where they laid him. 7 But go your way, tell his disciples and Peter that he goeth before you into Galilee: there shall ye see him, as he said unto you.

This is a pleasant message for the disciples, not designed to scatter them but to build them up before Jesus appears among them. His repeated appearances and messages make certain that He is risen and has a message of joy and comfort for them. Otherwise, the followers might have thought it was a dream, a vision, a case of wish-fulfillment. 

This little phrase - "and Peter" - is quite significant. Peter denied Jesus three times. And yet Peter is given special encouragement by being named. Thus we should remember Peter (and Paul) as exemplars for us. Though we may have been the worst in denying and persecuting Christ in the past (as one member confessed to me, from another congregation) - Jesus calls people into the fold and builds them up again.

26. Formerly, when we were led astray and cheated with lies and false worship, we could hold fast and comfort ourselves with firm, though false, faith in all the saints and the brotherhoods of the monks; and joyfully said:

Help, dear lord St. George, or St. Anthony, and St. Francis, and let me enjoy the benefit of thy intercessions!

Regret should not make someone afraid of returning to the fold, nor should pride. Two of the best apostles - Peter and Paul - had the worst sins against Christ. The truth stood out more clearly in them because of their previous false thinking and bad actions.

8 And they went out quickly, and fled from the sepulchre; for they trembled and were amazed: neither said they any thing to any man; for they were afraid.

This lesson ends abruptly because Easter is treated so often. It is shameful that the modern Bibles want to cut off the last 8 verses of Mark. There are many indications of the complete chapter being valid (as it always was until the fraud Tischendorf became a god among liberal scholars and misled professors). According to the moderns, then, the last word of the Gospel of Mark is "gar." For some odd reason, Greek has many post-positive words. They are connecting words and never end a sentence, let alone a chapter or a Gospel. But these critics know better and have Mark ending with "for."

The Benefits and Comfort of Christ's Resurrection
Grief is a constant reality, especially as we get older. The young are not spared, either. I grew up aware that I had only one grandparent I could remember. Viet Nam took away friends. And so on, losing parents, two children, best friends, and church members.

The Resurrection of Christ teaches us that life has purpose, that we are part of His family, and brothers of Christ. We can the results of the opposite attitude - that life has no purpose. Then despair must prevail, because the good and the evil seem so meaningless.

One classmate from high school often writes about losing her husband after a long batter with cancer. Her friends tell her to drop the subject and not write about grief. I chime in with thoughts about the healing power of faith during grief, which never goes away completely. The dominant pain gives way to dominant joy with the ache in the background. This person has slowly transitioned into an active life, but also one where she helps others with grief.

The tiniest actions on our part can mean so much to people - for years. Attending the service, coming to the grave itself, sending a card. I have known people who fret about evangelism - that is evangelism. Going to the service and comforting the family is the Gospel in action. Remembering the loss is also evangelism. Denial and rejection of grief, especially when giving Job's comforter advice, does not help. Sympathy can be quiet, even unspoken.